My day got off to a rough start. ¬†Instead of waking up to my alarm, I was awakened first (around 5:30 a.m.) by the ringing of the telephone. ¬†Whenever the telephone rings that early, my first thought is: “Somebody died.” ¬†Thankfully that was not the case. ¬†The person on the other line was a homeless, pregnant woman needing some help.

Archive for August, 2008
August 29th, 2008
August 20th, 2008
This past Monday, August 18, Ruthie and I celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary.  Although our marriage is far from perfect, it is healthy and thriving.  We can honestly say that we love one another more deeply and passionately than ever before.  
- Look for the things you love about your spouse, not the little things that irritate you (Phil. 4:8).
- Make time to talk (even about the everyday things) a real priority.
- Keep short accounts with one another. ¬†Don’t let bitterness or resentment build. ¬†Note: ¬†Timing is everything when it comes to bringing up a sensitive or stressful situation. ¬†Late at night when you’re both tired is usually not the best time to resolve a disagreement. ¬†The key to not letting the sun go down on your wrath is to give it to the Lord (Psalm 4:4-5), not to “give it” to your spouse right before bed!
- Try to discuss things of the Lord and His Word (Psalm 19:165), and pray together as often as possible (Eph. 6:18; 1 Pet. 4:7-8).
- Be thankful and appreciative for all that your spouse does, whether monumental or mundane (1 Thes. 5:17).
- Be intentional about keeping courtship and romance alive in your marriage (Song of Solomon 1:15-16; 2:2-6; 7:10): ¬†(a) Take the time and effort to make yourself attractive to your spouse; (b) Make “date night” a regular priority – be creative, it doesn’t need to be costly; (c) If at all possible, go to bed at the same time, don’t have a TV in your bedroom, and make sure you’re clean and fresh – it’s conducive to snuggling! ¬†(d) Be sensitive to meeting your spouse’s sexual needs (1 Cor. 7:3) – remember it’s not all about you … and you are usually glad you did! :)
- Be sure both your husband and kids see that he is the final authority in the home.  Husbands, be sure your kids see how much you love and respect your wife.  Insist that they honor their mother as well (Prov. 31:28).
- Never criticize your spouse to your kids; bring your concerns to him or her in a right spirit, and in private, once you have examined your own heart.  Note:  United, loving parents give a huge sense of security to their children.
- Don’t assume the worst about your spouse in a given situation; remember, love believes the best (1 Cor. 13:7).
- Make every effort to keep your home – and particularly your bedroom clutter-free and inviting.
- Make sitting down to dinner together as a family a priority.  In the end, sports and guitar lessons pale in comparison.  If dinner simply cannot work out, then make it some other meal.
- Don’t nag or manipulate to get what you want. ¬†While it may bring short-term results, it will bring long-term damage.
- Remember to lift up your spouse in prayer daily.
- Try to make your home as stress-free as possible, so that coming home is a pleasant, not miserable, experience.
- Don’t speak negatively of your spouse to others, and always be ready to defend him or her if someone does.
August 15th, 2008
I read a lot of books, and a lot of endorsements regarding books. ¬†Many endorsements include the highly complimentary and promotional phrase, “a must read.” ¬†Yet this expression is used so liberally, one can’t possibly read all the books that he “must.” ¬†And let’s face it: the only real book that we “must” read is the Bible. ¬†It is the Word of God and the ultimate standard by which every other book must be judged.
August 13th, 2008
My day started off wonderfully. ¬†I got up, poured myself a cup of coffee, sat outside enjoying the beauty of God’s creation, and opened my Bible to see what the Lord had for me this morning. ¬†It was a wonderful time of communing with my Savior. ¬†For a few brief moments, it was like no one else was in the world but me and my God.
August 5th, 2008
Reconnecting with old friends has been fun. ¬†I’ve been doing this for a couple of weeks now, sneaking in a moment here and there, as I’m able. ¬†Some acquaintances go back more than two decades to my adolescent years. ¬†It’s cool to see kids that I’ve grown up with now married with kids of their own.
I guess you have not heard yet, but on June 20th this year, God called James home to be with Him. He died instantly of a massive heart attack while on his lunch break. He leaves behind a wife and 2 daughters, ages 2 and 4. It was a huge shock, and our family continues to deal with his loss. However, the Lord continues to prove Himself a good and faithful God. Even in this, we trust His plans and purposes, and we rejoice that [he] is with his Savior in heaven. 
If you would like to know more about his life or have any questions, please feel free to ask. I love sharing about my big brother!
Take care and the Lord bless! Sincerely, 
Sarah
August 1st, 2008
At the risk of embarrassing Ed Chisam, a devoted servant of the Lord here at First Baptist Church (and who is probably reading this blog), I am going to use him as a launching pad for today’s topic at TruthWalk.
